People have some type of addiction or at some level, whether shopping, diet, food, exercise, drink, gambling or drugs. Now you might think that buying or dieting is not as bad as, for example, drinking or gambling? Wrong! Let’s go shopping, we all love spending money, walking and treating ourselves. If you like to go shopping, you usually go and buy for yourself, because for some reason you feel that you have earned the right to go shopping until you fall.
Addictive personality and some of its characteristics
You like to understand that this is only a purchase or a small bet, but it is not, because now you will not be able to go tonight or buy this gift for someone in your life who you were going to surprise, because you spent all this money. What happens when A credit card statement arrives through your inbox and you are at work? Yes, it is in one’s name, and he told his spouse that he spent it only on things for the house and that one uses it only for “emergency situations”, so that everything is in order if the other addictive personality opens the application.
Maybe not, but you just put the first seed of doubt in other people’s heads, and then you put the blame, you know, blame? You have to do this, you live with him every day as a drug addict, he is your little friend, but you decide not to recognize him most of the time and put him in the background. Only when someone intervenes does it really raise an ugly head and make you understand what you are doing wrong. This feeling will last, right?
Therefore, if you know someone, a friend, a colleague or God, prohibits your wife or husband, and the money begins to come from your joint account, credit card or vacation fund, and this cannot be explained by a conclusion with which both agree. Then someone is lying! Previously, he had to leave home to survive as a drug addict, trade, bet or buy, but not now!
Now you can do all this easily from home, so look and check your browsing history, check where they were and even see what they tell you, check your email. If you are in a loving and trustful relationship, you should both be able to open things like bank statements and credit cards. Even check the amount with which they leave, and do not allow any card. Why do you need a card if you only bet or a couple of drinks? It may sound a bit rude, but the addict will be glad that they recognize him and then they can admit it and get help, because, in the face of the facts, it is difficult to deny even the most inveterate liar.